Any recommended works on the practice of sex?
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@Ecstatic_Hamster Thank you for your answers.
For what it's worth, I've found that the changing of the cervix position during the menstrual cycle can cause pain issues in certain positions at certain times of month. This is something I've got to work out one way or another. It's probably just a feature of overly aggressive technique. Your point about extreme acts makes sense to me too, as it is the only way I see that a relationship might last for many decades on end: there is a finite number of such adrenergic acts one can do anyways. If we think that the human lifespan is not theoretically bounded, but only bounded by limitations in the environment, the correct attitude here becomes of paramount importance.
I've been implementing some of what I've found from your various posts for a month or so now with success in terms of heightened pleasure and attachment.
Do you think it may be possible to use a form of birth control besides condoms or the various industrial poisons, so as to enjoy this kind of thing without condoms? If what you say about longevity and contentment is true, such a practice would enhance both. I have heard some esoteric stuff about using lactation/breastfeeding, for example, as a form of birth control by way of how it affects oxytocin levels which prevents ovulation.
What might you say is the ideal number of hours for a session? Is there some kind of function that could estimate it based on, say, age?
Oh, and what do you make of the fact that humans tend to mate in private (vs many other animals)?
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@foobarbaazquux said in Any recommended works on the practice of sex?:
@Ecstatic_Hamster Thank you for your answers.
For what it's worth, I've found that the changing of the cervix position during the menstrual cycle can cause pain issues in certain positions at certain times of month. This is something I've got to work out one way or another. It's probably just a feature of overly aggressive technique. Your point about extreme acts makes sense to me too, as it is the only way I see that a relationship might last for many decades on end: there is a finite number of such adrenergic acts one can do anyways. If we think that the human lifespan is not theoretically bounded, but only bounded by limitations in the environment, the correct attitude here becomes of paramount importance.
I've been implementing some of what I've found from your various posts for a month or so now with success in terms of heightened pleasure and attachment.
Do you think it may be possible to use a form of birth control besides condoms or the various industrial poisons, so as to enjoy this kind of thing without condoms? If what you say about longevity and contentment is true, such a practice would enhance both. I have heard some esoteric stuff about using lactation/breastfeeding, for example, as a form of birth control by way of how it affects oxytocin levels which prevents ovulation.
What might you say is the ideal number of hours for a session? Is there some kind of function that could estimate it based on, say, age?
Oh, and what do you make of the fact that humans tend to mate in private (vs many other animals)?
you are absolutely right about cervix position. I don't thrust that way though and as you more sort of dwell inside her, you begin regaining more sensation over a few months and sex becomes incredible, especially if you refrain from having an ejaculatory orgasm each time you have sex.
I don't know of any other method of birth control besides condoms that isn't icky on the body. You can get this type of glue used in theater to keep the condom on your penis and then you aren't worrying about it falling off. It can be very pleasurable to spend a long time having intercourse and the penis tends to harden and soften and you don't want to worry about condoms in any event, and this makes it so you don't have to. Still shitty, but not as shitty as having her take dangerous pills or IUD etc.
I see this as discovering the existing program in the brain that I call the oxytocin track, and this becomes more and more of a thing in life, that gets you and your partner to be more and more into each other, but in a healthy way, and can keep a relationship amazing for many decades. It isn't anything to try for. It already lays in your body and brain as a possibility.
We don't find the oxytocin track because it isn't as obvious and every sexual trigger around us is telling us to do the opposite -- what I call the dopamine track, where we find flaws in our partner, where we want other people, constantly dissatisfied, always wanting more and never wanting what we already have.
I have found this type of sex (where you spend lots of time in intercourse and don't cum as often) leads to sexual abundance which leads to material abundance. You literally attract more wealth to you when you are wealthy sexually. And you get more happiness, by far, by far. Nothing like it.
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I don't thrust that way though and as you more sort of dwell inside her, you begin regaining more sensation over a few months and sex becomes incredible, especially if you refrain from having an ejaculatory orgasm each time you have sex.
Interesting...I haven't gone that far yet. Selling it to her might be a bit weird, since otherwise she might get insecure about my not having had an orgasm (in the usual way).
But I'll have to get around to trying it at some point if we're to spend decades together.
I have been practicing at going for something like an hour, the results of which are difficult to dispute for her. But this is somewhat different.
How did you go about introducing it to her? Assuming it was your idea.
Anything I should watch out for, if trying that out?
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@foobarbaazquux said in Any recommended works on the practice of sex?:
I don't thrust that way though and as you more sort of dwell inside her, you begin regaining more sensation over a few months and sex becomes incredible, especially if you refrain from having an ejaculatory orgasm each time you have sex.
Interesting...I haven't gone that far yet. Selling it to her might be a bit weird, since otherwise she might get insecure about my not having had an orgasm (in the usual way).
But I'll have to get around to trying it at some point if we're to spend decades together.
I have been practicing at going for something like an hour, the results of which are difficult to dispute for her. But this is somewhat different.
How did you go about introducing it to her? Assuming it was your idea.
Anything I should watch out for, if trying that out?
It was my idea. I just said as we were starting, “I’m not going to come today,” and that was that. Eventually she followed and did what I am doing. It’s pretty amazing and the old way holds no attraction.
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@Ecstatic_Hamster Fair enough. Looking forward to trying it out.
I found this interesting article exploring the relation between brain and testes as well:
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8169208/
In "pop history terms", it might help to explain the celibacy and genius of Nikola Tesla, Isaac Newton, beyond just the fact that it saves time.