@SanguisEtAqua don’t get stuck in this overly analytical OCD type thinking. If you force something to change it won’t. I would recommend just observing your ego / thoughts (which are not your own )
And just engaging in the conversation mo matter where it goes.
Also it may feel uncomfortable and wrong because “it’s not a certain way “ “or oh it needs to be going on this direction “ but just still talk as the thoughts play on.
-this is my interpretation