Would you say that you are incel or volcel?
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Would you say that you are incel or volcel?
Personally I would say I dont actually know because I havent made any genuine effort to even try to meet women for years , i just dont care enough about women to make a effort , but i'm quite sure that if I tried then it would propably turn to shit , so my bet would be that I am incel.
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Volcel. I just don't see sex as that big of a deal. With measures to prevent pregnancy (like condoms and birth control, even though I don't think hormonal birth control is healthy) sex is pointless and will not complete my purpose. Without measures to prevent pregnancy it's risky and life consuming. I don't desire to have children right now.
I see sex as something that could theoretically be easy to get, provided you're healthy, not super ugly, and actively pursuing sex. Even an ugly guy could find an ugly girl to bang. The amount of sex low tier men get is something they put on a pedestal and brag about. It's just like people with a bunch of money in a bank account who eat like shit and aren't truly happy.
I can list off a lot of things I'd much rather do than have sex.I'd also like to mention the fact that while male celebrities/successful men have a lot of sex, usually with one woman, or a few they could trust, they aren't going wild banging every attractive woman they can get. I figure that after having a certain amount of sex and attracting enough women that you get bored of it and perceive it as potentially financially draining and messy. Just as you'd get bored from unlimited cocaine/your drug of choice. Inevitably your life is consumed and or altered by a lack of control.
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I would say that I struggle to genuinly like women. I want to like them but I just cant like them. Its difficult to genuinly like a woman in 2024 , if you know what I mean. Most of them are not exactly good people nowadays , not very likeable.