Is cooming peaty?
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@user2
“possibly it can allow body to get rid of exess of certains elements and make you tend toward better elements proportions/ratios,
possibly your body doesnt have enough of certains elements/energy that the women you desire have more of in their body”There is no such evidence scientifically of any of these two but there is plenty against it.semen is recycled in the body and the fluids that are of waste are discharged in your sleep or when you urinate.Freuds main point is sexual energy is a creative force you either transmute it or drain it with sex.
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@lykos said in Is cooming peaty?:
@user2
“possibly it can allow body to get rid of exess of certains elements and make you tend toward better elements proportions/ratios,
possibly your body doesnt have enough of certains elements/energy that the women you desire have more of in their body”There is no such evidence scientifically of any of these two but there is plenty against it. Freuds main point is sexual energy is a creative force you either transmute it or drain it with sex.
Absence of "science" evidences proove/disproove nothing. Calling it "drain" from sex tell more about the state of the person using that word and how he feels he get impact by semen emission, it doesnt necessary apply to everyone and every context. Improving a woman well being by emitting in her, and getting a new living being months later that love you isnt necessary a drain, can be the opposite. I personally can have alot of semen emission in my dreams at certains periods(and it can also happen simultenaeously IRL), and when i wake up i feel significantly better than before i went to sleep. A man can also feel better from emitting semen awake, whever its with a woman or virtual, well being is the most relevant metric, " performance/energy/vitality" is secondary
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@user2 Galen who said, `Omne animal post coitum triste.' (All animals are sad after coitus.)"
Young bulls frequently faint away after the first connection with a cow, and it is very common to
observe a young bull so exhausted that he sneaks off to a quiet corner and lies down for a couple
of hours. I wish i could pinpoint what exactly destroys my sleep when i abstain, my only theory thus far is that it's my brain being used to the sate of high prolactin that follows sex. -
@lykos said in Is cooming peaty?:
@user2 Galen who said, `Omne animal post coitum triste.' (All animals are sad after coitus.)"
Young bulls frequently faint away after the first connection with a cow, and it is very common to
observe a young bull so exhausted that he sneaks off to a quiet corner and lies down for a couple
of hours.Its possible, yet lying down isnt necessary bad or worst, well being is what matter the most, standing and being awake doeznt lmply that you feel better, and also what environnements these young bulls were in, wich race, both can influence body ressources and semen emission impact
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@lykos said in Is cooming peaty?:
@user2 wish i could pinpoint what exactly destroys my sleep when i abstain, my only theory thus far is that it's my brain being used to the sate of high prolactin that follows sex.
Do you see women when you abstain, even from.your family, mom or sisters, do you love them, do you huge them?
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@user2 I do see women daily, I do not love them or hug, they frequently flirt with me which inspires lust and repression.
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@lykos
As the famous playwright said:
"To coom or not to coom, that is the question."Is "Peating"
Peaty?I saw a graph on women's vs men's hormonal cycle on the interwebs - the male's cycle is stable with lots of small peaks and valleys. The female's follows the 28 day Lunar / feminine / menstrual cycle with peaks and valleys much larger and larger periodicity.
I think this is simple biology. I think the no fap stuff is damaging, but pornbrain is real and also damaging. I think it's similar to constipation - nobody reasonable would promote being constipated for a month or months at a time. Vomiting is extreme, whereas other excretions are "Regular." But again, addiction and habit are two different things. Coffee and food are not an addiction but a steady stream of nutrients we need every day.
It's really hard to say but pay attention to feelings and thoughts. Porn is often bad, but nude sculptures and classical art are often beautiful and never leave us feeling empty or scummy. Eros and thanatos, as you said - love and death. They're related. My guess is conscious regulation is important.
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@lykos said in Is cooming peaty?:
@user2 I do see women daily, I do not love them or hug, they frequently flirt with me which inspires lust and repression.
I suggest try to love max and huge max with your mothers/sisters, can have significant positive impact
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Raymond D Peat