Optimal gooning regimen
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My friend, ask yourself or rather, feel yourself, whether you're mastutbating because of a) mental tension b) fear c) boredom d) genuine desire to connect.
In my estimation, if you're young and virile, having sex 1-2 times a week is enough. Too little? Too much? Try going a week without instagram, twitter, media, movies, TV shows. See how your sexual appetite adapts. Maybe you need more, maybe you need less. Be natural.
-BigusDickus
The man who believes that the secrets of the world are forever hidden lives in mystery and fear.
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I goon 37 times per day. My personal record is 39
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@BigusDickus 2 times a week? What are you, a millennial/gen xer with ED?
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I have unironically noticed eating instant ramen noodles after the act removes all side effects of masturbation.
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@Sugar Dear Sugar, I'm simply not perpetually aroused. My releases are powerful enough to sustain my body and spirit. Estrogen shifts you over to a state of mild excitation; not good!
-BigusDickus
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Don't goon, just watch porn without touching your dick and it will make your T skyrocket. If you can't stop yourself from touching your cock your can put on a chastity cage and throw away the key or something of that sort
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When the dust settles, if threads like this still exist, I'm going back to RPF.
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Just don't goon, drink tea and enjoy life
become bunnypilled
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it's best to practice semen withdrawal to not lose vril
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@bunny thank you bunny i will
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@Sugar If you don't mind me asking, how old are you ?
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@Caray 23
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@Sugar why do you assume you can't have sex with women ?
Why do you assume you have to fall into abstention neuroticism if you try to abstain ?
Is it related yo your view that porn enables you to get sexual desire and gratification ? You used the word "deny" there. Do you feel entitled to gooning ?
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Don’t do that stuff.
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@Caray did not read, you're coping.
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Would it be wrong to make a happiness equation that goes like this: Happiness = Libido/sexual stimulation. Within every week, stiving for as much libido and as little sexual stimulation as possible is a good rule to follow.
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@Norwegian-Mugabe I would say it very much goes along those lines. But we can only live with that constant assault (sexual stimulation on media and modern culture) if we get and live by the conviction that getting your "dose" isn't really the crutch we believe it to be, but on the contrary a detriment to a fulfilled life.
I've been on and off "NoFap" for more years than I'd like to admit and I can summarise my experience this way :
- Fapping: lazy, reactive emotional state, avoidant, bad choices esp. regarding women, generally anxious, but "content" with my station in life.
- NotFapping, but living the GRIND and exerting all my willpower to not look at porn/other stimuli: productive, confrontative, argumentative, polemical, hardened, miserable.
Last week I checked on the EasyPeasy method and its main tenet dawned on me. I felt this big smile coming up from my loins into my head, now that I could finally see a clear picture of that elusive feeling/state of mind I've always loved so much. Which takes us to
- NotFapping and not looking back: happens when either you're so focused on the positives you experience you don't focus on the "negatives" of giving It up OR you see those supposed negatives in a clear light, i.e. there are no negatives whatsoever from quitting porn. It's the kind of state where you see a mildly attractive woman passing by and you just feel thankful and appreciative for her beauty and the surge of clean energy it ellicits within you.
TLDR gooning NOT peaty
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Makes me feel worse afterwards, physically and spiritually.
