Optimal gooning regimen
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it's best to practice semen withdrawal to not lose vril
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@bunny thank you bunny i will
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@Sugar If you don't mind me asking, how old are you ?
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@Caray 23
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@Sugar why do you assume you can't have sex with women ?
Why do you assume you have to fall into abstention neuroticism if you try to abstain ?
Is it related yo your view that porn enables you to get sexual desire and gratification ? You used the word "deny" there. Do you feel entitled to gooning ?
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Donβt do that stuff.
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@Caray did not read, you're coping.
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Would it be wrong to make a happiness equation that goes like this: Happiness = Libido/sexual stimulation. Within every week, stiving for as much libido and as little sexual stimulation as possible is a good rule to follow.
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@Norwegian-Mugabe I would say it very much goes along those lines. But we can only live with that constant assault (sexual stimulation on media and modern culture) if we get and live by the conviction that getting your "dose" isn't really the crutch we believe it to be, but on the contrary a detriment to a fulfilled life.
I've been on and off "NoFap" for more years than I'd like to admit and I can summarise my experience this way :
- Fapping: lazy, reactive emotional state, avoidant, bad choices esp. regarding women, generally anxious, but "content" with my station in life.
- NotFapping, but living the GRIND and exerting all my willpower to not look at porn/other stimuli: productive, confrontative, argumentative, polemical, hardened, miserable.
Last week I checked on the EasyPeasy method and its main tenet dawned on me. I felt this big smile coming up from my loins into my head, now that I could finally see a clear picture of that elusive feeling/state of mind I've always loved so much. Which takes us to
- NotFapping and not looking back: happens when either you're so focused on the positives you experience you don't focus on the "negatives" of giving It up OR you see those supposed negatives in a clear light, i.e. there are no negatives whatsoever from quitting porn. It's the kind of state where you see a mildly attractive woman passing by and you just feel thankful and appreciative for her beauty and the surge of clean energy it ellicits within you.
TLDR gooning NOT peaty
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Makes me feel worse afterwards, physically and spiritually.
