lisan al gaib is now banned, their refusal to follow the rule in question being the reason: telling others to kill themselves is explicitly against the rules. I have locked this thread. For the users listed below, if they so choose, resolution will now be one-on-one. @CO3, if you want resolution on your point, you must send me a chat. Realize that I have no connection to Ray and don't need to believe anything he said. Nothing. Though, I don't mean my essay post towards you to put you down: if you can calmly convince me, I'm all ears. Your issue was personal though, and that will never change how I moderate. Consider in the future that if you mean to take anything you don't like on this forum as a personal attack, which is what you did here, I'll strongly consider moderation action, not mediation. **@Razvan **, you should get a clear picture having read the last post that the human element is required for fair moderation, to appreciate nuance, motive, and so on. A machine that would not allow disagreement with Ray would have already banned you for the post I screenshotted, consider that my "personal ideas" are what spares you from your own standard . As for the post I screenshotted, see here and refer to times Ray compared stress and hypothyroidism to aging. I didn't really make that clear previously. To recommend choline to someone under stress would fall under this, hence my point to you. I look forward to a nice, calm, well written message that will change my outlook on how I handled this situation, Razvan. As I told CO3, you not liking that I disagree with Ray counts for nothing. It may shock you that my healing has come more form a Barnes-like approach. And a bit of Selye too. Lastly, likewise that if I see you taking something personally that doesn't affect you, I'll skip the mediation step, the "personal ideas" of mine.